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Synonyms for polite

Definitions

  1. adj. 1

    Well-mannered, civilized.

    Try and be polite to Auntie Maria for once.

Related words

Word family
politely politeness polish
Phrases
polite literature
Is a kind of
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From weakest to strongest

  1. impolite
  2. rude
  3. polite
  4. respectful
  5. gracious
  6. courteous
  7. affable
  8. genteel
  9. obliging

From the opposite of polite, on the left, to its strongest synonyms, on the right.

Choose the right word

Polite, Civil, Courteous or Genteel?

Civil is a colder and more distant word than polite; courteous is fuller and richer, dealing often with greater matters, and is used only in the good sense. Genteel refers to an external elegance, which may be showy and superficial, and the word is thus inferior to polite or courteous.

J. C. Fernald, English Synonyms and Antonyms (1914)

Example sentences

  • gracious I didn't know that you are such a gracious person.
  • courteous Tom told me that he hoped Mary would be courteous.
  • genteel Oh, how genteel and gallant men are when they want something from a poor woman!

Popularity over time

Word1850 → 2019Trend
politerising
graciousrising
courteoussteady
genteelrising

Use in printed books, per decade from 1850 to 2019.

By length

4 letters
nice1
5 letters
civil2, suave1
6 letters
proper2, gentle2, urbane2, unrude
7 letters
refined2, gallant2, affable3, genteel2
8 letters
polished2, gracious2, obliging3, mannerly
9 letters
civilized3, attentive3, courteous3, civilised
10 letters
respectful3, cultivated4
11 letters
gentlemanly4
12 letters
accomplished3
13 letters
accommodating5

The small number after each word is its number of syllables (civil2 = 2 syllables).